5 Ways I Took Control of My Life after Hospitalization
This is a follow-up from my previous blog, “15 Things I’m grateful for after being Hospitalized”. For me, being grateful was not enough: if I didn’t further change my lifestyle that landed me in the hospital. I definitely did not bring the incident on all by myself, however, be it a virus or otherwise, it did happen.
So, taking the bull by the horn, I embarked on the path of taming this bull and bringing all the possible risks under my control – a loved one tells me I am a ‘control freak’. This, however, has a wonderful application: my health and wellness. A review with my physician three months after my discharge from hospital, proves my success and effort. All my markers (blood sugar, kidney and liver functions, cholesterol, salt) were normal and I was told that my metabolic age is 15 years younger than my physical age and that I had at least 30 more years to go – wow, wouldn’t you want to hear that too?
This is how I did it:
- Changing my food intake. I was already on a plant-based, low-oil and low-salt diet; with zero refined sugar-containing foods or drinks, and ate mostly fresh fruits and vegetables. Then I realized that processed vegan products (soy chicken and fish and vegan sausages) were becoming a regular item in my diet. These have more salt, oil, and additives compared to less processed items. So, I reduced the intake of these products (my daughter, Marilyn is my ‘partner-in-crime’). We still eat them but have decreased the frequency and the quantity of intake at any meal. There are even more fresh vegetables in our meals.
- Monitoring and recording my markers on a daily basis. This helped to see the trend of my efforts and the medication. Tracking also helped me realize what causes my sugar or blood pressure to spike. Stress was a definite culprit!
- Relieving stress as a daily practice. I mindfully take time to do things that make me relaxed and happy, such as meditating, reading, doing crosswords, listening to soothing music, watching romcoms and walking. I realized that I love myself and am the one responsible for taking care of me; I never want to be a burden on anyone else, no matter how much they love me. However, I will ask for help when I need it – this is what strong people do!
- Taking medications regularly. I was willing the medicines to help me control my markers and not just taking it for the sake of it. I also monitored what the medications were doing to me and adjusted them in consultation with the physician after I had an allergic reaction to one of them. After the review, I’m taking fewer medications and lower doses of the ones I still take. The physician was positive that I’ll be reducing them further within the next three months or so!
- Maintaining my no-smoking, no-recreational-drug and no-alcohol status. These days, it is so easy and common to fall into the trap of taking drugs, alcohol or smoking to relieve stress. Being strong-willed, I have maintained my principles of not causing harm to my body by making any of these unhealthy choices.
I believe that I’m on this Earth for a purpose. My physical body is the means through which this purpose will be fulfilled so I need to take care of it to the fullest. I also feel strongly that my health is my responsibility and no one else’s. I am definitely grateful for the support I receive from my loved ones in creating a ‘conducive environment’ for healthier choices.
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This blog is written by our intrepid Wellness Advisor, Dr. Margaret Cornelius.